How To Understand a Guy
Many women have trouble understanding guys and what they want in women. It is not rocket science. Men want the same things as women, love, relationships, eventually a happy marriage. Unfortunately, men hold off a lot longer than women expressing those needs and desires until he finds the right one. It is up to the woman to try and understand the guy and be the one that he eventually opens up to. And even though most guys do want that commitment, almost no single men want to be tied down with a ball and chain on one leg. Men don't want to feel suffocated, by anyone. And the longer they have been single, the less they can tolerate bossy women.
Men want to feel in control of their own lives. When a guy enters a relationship, he still wants to maintain his freedom. The last thing he wants is a woman telling him what he can and can not do. If you start doing this too fast, you can say goodbye to your love because he is not going to stick around. Fortunately, the more freedom you give him, the closer he will become to you. It is a push-pull type of relationship. When you give him no problems about going out with all of his single friends to a pick up joint, he is going to just want to come home even earlier to be with you. Conversely, when you tell him you don't want him to go, he might be out all night long. You can see where I am going with this. A man wants to be in a relationship but also wants to be able to have the freedom and independence as a single guy does. This is something which is too hard to downright give up. But if you enable to him to be as free as he wishes (at first), he will eventually tie himself down to you without you ever having to ask!
One of the best ways to learn about men and how to understand them is by asking one of them. Cucan Pemo, a leading relationship expert, wrote a little guide for women entitled 500 Secrets About Men. What way to better understand a guy than to read a book about men by a man?! This is a great book because not only does it teach you how to understand them, it teaches you how to make men happy and be the woman that they will always run to. You can also download this guide right onto your computer. It is a can't miss book suggested by AdviceDiva.Com This manual is perfect for the dating woman, a woman in a new relationship and even for a woman already in a long term relationship.
Above all else, men like to know that they are good people, everyone does. I always wonder about certain relationships, and what compels husbands and wives to yell at each other so viciously and call each other names. Aren't these people supposed to be in love? I mean, what do they do to people they hate? No matter how angry you are with your man, the worse thing you can do is lash out in anger. Men love women who are conflict resolvers and who do not go into long periods of depression because they didn't get their way. Crying is a big no-no as well. It does nothing but make a guy feel badly about himself and no man wants to live with that. Remember to be loving to a man, pump up his ego, tell him how wonderful he is and how great he is. When you are ticked off at him or something he did, find something else that you can praise him for. This alone will make you the superwoman in his life.
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