My Story - How To Get Your Ex Back Fast
Hi and welcome. My name is Chase Oliver, and like you and almost everyone else in the world, I’ve suffered from the severe emotional swings having to do with breaking up.
Shortly after I came home from college, I started dating a girl named Sara. We had known eachother before, but had only engaged in small talk and they typical “hi, how are you”
Then one night I was out with some friends, and Sara and I got to talking. I had always had a ’secret’ crush on her, but I thought that acquaintances was as far as our relationship would ever go.
Well after talking to her, it became clear that there was more to the situation than I had thought before.
She was a very interesting person (not to mention GORGEOUS), and we quickly found out that we were very comfortable around eachother. We got close really fast.
You know how it is - when you’re with someone, and it just “feels right”. Thats what Sara and I had.
A comfort level and an attraction that had shown itself very fast after we actually started talking that night.
So we started officially ‘dating’ about 3 weeks later after talking and hanging out a bunch more times. And I can honestly tell you that I’ve NEVER gotten so close to someone so FAST.
And Maybe That Wasn’t a Good Thing
But at the time, it was the greatest feeling in the world. To all of a sudden discover someone who could understand you so deeply and on a different level than you’ve ever experienced with someone else.
How your mind always wanders to them when you aren’t with them, and you can’t wait till the next ime you are together.
And those are the perks of the ‘honeymoon’ stage of any relationship. It seems like the two of you are unstoppable, and that you could take on the world and anything life throws at you.
I know - I was there too… And there is no better feeling in the world than knowing you have someone there to stand beside you, and that will back you up and be supportive of your dreams and goals.
When you love someone so deeply, you want nothing more than to see them happy, and you’d do almost anything to make that happen.
Then, With NO WARNING - Lightning Strikes
And that ‘lightning’ could be represented by any number of things. A job change or loss, a new co worker, a loss of sex drive, a big fight…
There are thousands of them. In my situation with Sara it was a need for space.
After we had dated for a few years, we took a trip to California for a vacation. I set up the most beautiful proposal a girl could ever ask for. (We’re talking some storybook stuff here)
And with tears of joy in her eyes, she happily accepted the ring, and told me she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. I was the happiest guy in the world.
But as the wedding date got closer, Sara started to become distant.
When previously she couldn’t stop talking about plans for the wedding and how excited she was, now she had become very passive about the whole thing. It didn’t seem to mean anything to her anymore.
And That’s When She Dropped The Bomb
She said she needed some space, and some time to think. The problem was she didn’t know how long, or how much space.
It became clear when she stopped returning calls and texts, that she was VERY serious about this.
I was completely devastated. It felt like my life was going to end. I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t go to work because my emotions were on a ‘hair trigger’
When something like that happens to you, it’s human nature to basically “shut down”
Minutes feel like hours as you stare at the clock wishing, hoping, wondering if she’ll call. Thinking of the past and everything you could have done differently.
It’s a total mental and emotional drain, and the pain feels like it’s never gonna end.
But it doesn’t have to be like that.
So many men and women make extreme mistakes after a break up that make it virtually impossible for another chance at being with the one you love ever again.
But it’s ok because there IS a solution.
I did everything wrong to try and get Sara back. And it wound up making me look pretty pathetic along with pushing her even farther away.
Until I started doing some searching around on the Internet and found the book that literally saved my relationship (and my sanity!).
And THAT is exactly how I got Sara back and we are now happier than we’ve ever been. All thanks to this book:
I turned to T ‘Dub’ Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.
T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up”. And you know, it worked like magic for us.
Now we are more in love than ever.
Rooting For YOU,