Get Men To Like Me
There are so so many women out there who do nothing put push guys away and wonder why guys doesn't like them. It isn't really you or your personality, it is the signals you are giving guys and the pressure you put on them which drives them to leave you as fast as they met you. And then you wonder why men don't like you, you get depressed and make it even harder for yourself the next time around. What you need to do is change your frame of mind, the way you view things going into a new relationship and of course, your self esteem. It is very easy to get men to like you.
First of all you must realize that the guys are out there dating because they also want to enter a real relationship. Sure, there are some players out there, but only a few. A guy is generally dating around because he wants to find someone he connects with. Now that you know this, there is no reason for you to push the issue with any man you first meet. The fastest end to a new relationship is when the woman, after the first date, becomes instantly clingy. This is the worst thing you can do. Always maintain an emotional distance for the first couple of dates. This drives a man wild. You appear more mysterious and he wants to know more about you. He will be the one calling and he will be the one asking for more dates. Otherwise, if you are the one pressing for more dates, opening up to him right away and telling him your entire life story in one sitting and letting him know how much you really care for him too soon...where is the thrill? There is no for him and you are already history.
There is a fabulous new ebook for the woman in dire distress called How To Be Irresistible to Men which the Diva highly recommends to any woman. This is an instant download which can teach you everything you need to know about making yourself the number one catch for any man you would like to get to know better. It is always wise to do lots of research on relationships and find out what men like in women if you have problems in this type of area. We understand, no one can be perfect. Even the hottest women can have such a low self esteem issue which prevents them from landing a successful relationship. Not that you have to be hot, hell....you don't even have to be luke warm to be happy in love. We do recommend reading related materials and brushing up on your dating skills.
When you meet a guy whom you really like, it is important not to latch on to him and only him right away. This is another key point. It is very important that you keep all avenues open, even if you really like the guy. You are only dating and it is completely socially acceptable to date more than one man at a time. You are just getting to know him. One date is not enough time to decide on a relationship with him. This will also show him that you are an independent woman who doesn't have that relationship NEED. You will appear more attractive to him and you will perhaps give him that chase that so many men desire. You don't have to be mean about it, or even flaunt it in front of his face. But if he asks you if you are dating anyone else, don't lie about it. Lying is another big mistake. Always be completely honest about those types of issues, they always come back to haunt you if you don't.
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