How To Stop Internet Cheating
Men and women alike have been known to have cyber affairs online and not think anything wrong even when they are married or in a committed relationship. Just because there is never any physical contact, people assume it is okay to carry on online relationships with another person. The computer is the buffer. It is less intimate and cheaters think they are getting away with legal cheating. Unfortunately for them, this is not the case. Internet infidelity still breaks your loved one's hearts and it is STILL cheating. Physical contact is not the only form of cheating. The computer is merely your tool to commit acts of infidelity. Cheating is cheating. The problem with cheating online is the fact that it can become sorely addictive. If one person is craving some sort of emotional attachment or venue to achieve a sexual release and finds it online, it can be difficult for that person to stop.
That is why Maple, a fellow advice Diva, has written a a brand new ebook on stopping internet cheating called, How To Stop Internet Infidelity. I wish I had this book when I was dating Chris, a long time internet loser. We had been dating for two years and were living together. During the last year he succumbed to the powers of internet sex chat rooms and more. Although I caught him many times, he would not stop. It eventually escalated into him visiting booby bars and getting happy endings in the back VIP rooms of these gentlemen clubs. Yikes, this was the worst of the twerps I dated. When I left him, he changed his ways and asked me to take him back. He suddenly became more grounded, stopped playing online and stopped hanging out with strippers. However, it was too late for me, I had moved on, seeking better.
If you want to keep you relationship with your significant other, and help him to end his affair with his computer and the people on the other end of his cyber messaging, then you should really do something about it. With me, I was at my wits end, and I do not take infidelity nor am I able to put up with it. However, with long term relationships, sometimes it is better to work things out, find a solution to the problem and fix it. Relationships that successfully go through a bad period only to make it through on the other end are the ones that could last forever. Relationships grow stronger when a bad period is overcome.
Internet infidelity is no laughing matter. I know how it feels to catch the man you love having an online affair. It hurts just as much as the real thing. The first thing you should do is let him know that you know what is going on. Don't scream, ban him from the computer or cause a scene. This will only make him revolt. If you calmly let him know that you are on to him and let him know how much it is hurting you and then drop it from there, he will wise up right away. He will become too nervous to keep trying and will pay more attention to you. This is not always the case, but it helps.
If your case is really bad, I would think about ordering the ebook, Stop Internet Infidelity now and put an end to this pain and suffering.