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Dear Diva Rebecca,
I have been like in love with this guy for about 3 months, we are like best friends and he knows I like him. I never did anything because I figured he knew I liked him. If he wanted something more all he would have to do is say something. It turns out my best friend likes him too and she asked him out. He said yes but reluctantly. I don't know what to do. I'm not mad at her because I don't see the point but I am hurting badly.
Sincerely,
Silently In Love Longview, Texas
Dear Silently in Love, Did your best friend know that you were in in love with this guy? If so, she is not your friend. But if she did not know, you are right not to be angry with her. She made the first move and got the goods. You should always cherish your friendships. Your best friends could be the relationships that last lifetimes. So for now I would not do anything to get in their way. Just let the relationship take its course and see what happens. But in case they break up and you want to date him, you should let her know now that you had feelings for this guy and you were a little upset that she asked him out. Tell her this in a calm and rational way and also let her know that you are not angry with her. That way she can not be upset if you guys start dating if they don't work out. Next time you should make your move if you like a guy. He might be just as shy as you so you can not just sit there and play the part of the wallflower waiting for him to make his move. And you should never just assume that he knows you like him. Make moves and flirt. Invite him out for casual lunches and maybe even happy hour. If he does not reciprocate after that, then he just might not be that into you and you should drop it. Move on to the next guy.
Sincerely, Diva Rebecca
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Comments..(Not Questions)
Lisa
27 Feb 2008, 16:34
I agree that while your best friend is dating the guy, you should not get
in the way. If things don?t work out between them, you should definitely
tell the guy clearly how you feel. Even though you may think he knows you
like him, you?d be surprised how clueless people can be. I actually was
the clueless one in my relationship! I had a great male friend in college,
and when I moved to another state to work, he stayed in touch by e-mailing
and calling. Whenever I came back to visit, we would often go out and he
would even give me gifts. I did not pick up on these hints and looked upon
all this as the actions of a friend ? even the gifts were given for a
reason (my graduation, birthday, etc). About 12 years later, we are now
living in the same area and when we got together again recently, I began
realizing I really liked him. At this point, I suspected he may have liked
me all along, but I was initially hesitant to say anything in case he
really did only think of me as a friend. Finally one night when we were
going out for dinner, I told him that I liked him and that I was interested
in dating. To my pleasant surprise, he told me he had always liked me and
had been too shy to say anything. We are so happy now!
advice
02 Feb 2008, 21:41
This guy probably really likes you. I have been with a guy that is jealous
like that and it was a little annoying, but it also feels good to e wanted.
If you like this guy, let him know how you feel very discretely. I know all
this from experience
Very Confused
30 Jan 2008, 22:58
I have one boy who likes me but sticks up for me like a brother but has
really strong feelings for me. also other guys who like me. but he doesn't
want them anywhere near me. is it possessiveness or really strong feeling
like love?
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