How To Tell If He or She is Cheating

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How To Tell If He or She is Cheating
by Guest Author Glen Houston

There are a few unorthodox ways to see if your spouse or partner is cheating. One way is to see how s/he responds to online baits. This will reveal a bit about your relationship and his/her character.

Try this:

  1. Create a Myspace.com or any other internet social network account that you feel he will most likely feel comfortable with, if s/he doesn't already have one. Place up a few pictures of someone very attractive. You can find stock photography on sites by doing a search on "stock photos" and look for royalty free ones. As long as you are not using this for commercial purposes, it is legal. Make sure these are not the airbrushed ones. You need realistic photos. Then write a good description of yourself as well. Now make your profile private. This is important so it doesn't look like a spammer bot.
  2. Then message him/her with something like "You look familiar. Did we meet before?". Invite him via email invite if he doesn’t have an account already.
  3. Listen to his/her response and then reply back with "Oh ok, hey you're cute by the way (or some positive quality that strokes his ego very well), are you single by the way?"
  4. Listen to his/her response and if it's not a firm NO, then that's a sign of character weakness.
You must not be afraid to try this out and understand that you have a right to know how s/he presents him/herself to the world behind your back. This is especially true if you feel s/he's doing things behind your back already. But be honest with yourself. If you really don't want to know, then don't do it.

Sneaky? Perhaps. However the point here is to prove that s/he is truly curious to venture outside your relationship without your knowledge. This doesn't prove cheating has occurred but will tell you signs of his/her character.

If this happens, you must take further action and stand up for yourself. If s/he does not take the bait, it's one step closer to staying assured about your relationship and that's a great thing. You don't need to continue any further to look for signs of infidelity. You can ease up and realize that your significant other is probably very true to you.

Want to see more unorthodox ways from spy software to reading micro-facial expressions? See Glen Houston's underground "3 Surefire Signs of Cheating" report for free: How To Tell if Your Partner is Cheating.

Comments..(Not Questions)

exz girlfriend
01 May 2008, 09:58
Justin Lee Null is a cheater and liar and needs to be alone for the rest of his life.
Danielle
01 May 2008, 09:57
you dont need this you can just tell by his actions wether he is cheating like my ex boyfriend was cheatting for over two months and i started figuring it out when he wouldnt let me touch him we were together for 7 months and cheated on me for 2. there is only one way i find out and that how he reacts to you and not you actting like someone on the internet do it your self how does he act around you or respond to your normal you see if he has changed
sorry but you dont need the internet for any of it.
kristin
25 Mar 2008, 11:23
Worked for me. used a distant friend's picture and made messages that didnt sound like myself. not that he knows what i type like online. I was completely disgusted but I'm glad i was able to get this clue ... he wasn't right for me anyways

great, perhaps sneaky, but still brilliant idea
Jo
20 Mar 2008, 09:45
I did this too and I didn't even use a picture. It worked like a charm. No idea it was me. He went out of his way to assure me he was very much single and was in the process of setting up a get together. It is sneaky. But the advise is sound. You've got to make sure the profile is nothing like you and the messages sound like someone else. I found out what I needed to know about him and I've moved on leaving him behind.
cathy
13 Mar 2008, 22:29
already did this.... it came back to bite me in the ass...... he figured out it was me and was way more upset that i was being sneeky. BADDDD ADVICE, sorry.
M2M
10 Mar 2008, 15:03
If you suspect she's cheating, you've already lost trust. Dreaming up ways to discover if she's cheating become superfluous - it's mere drama. Simply ask her/him. Whatever the answer, you can only control your own behaviour and act according to your own best interests.
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