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How I Saved My Marriage
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My husband's involvement and attraction towards me was fading away. It was only a matter a time before he would ask for a divorce. Even though I knew it would happen soon I was in a state of shock when the moment finally arrived.
I did what I could to cope with it all. I derived a �what's wrong with us� list. Then followed it up with a �how to improve� list. I gone through episodes where I pleaded with my husband, tried to talk him out of it, cried while bluntly begging and other usual responses and tactics from someone who doesn't want a divorce. We tried counseling without success. In desperation, I suggested a trial separation hoping that he misses me and things would go back to normal.
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Come Back Home
It seems obvious to me now that we were meant to be together. This separation has been good for us and allowed us to open our eyes to see how silly the trivial problems we had actually are and it gave us room to heal and let our hearts grow strong again. And now I can honestly say that it is you I want in my life. I miss you dearly and I want you to come back to me.
I know we have had our share of problems. Every relationship experiences those complicated times. But I am willing to work those issues out with you, without the tearful confrontations and without the anger and hurtful accusations. I think we can move beyond that now. With this space we have given each other, I have been able to see the more important issues. And you are the most important thing in my life, the most precious person, whom I do not want to lose. You have been a gift in my life and I was taking advantage of it, I almost lost sight of what a special and promising blessing you have been to me. I promise you that I will never lose sight of just how important and dear you are to me ever again.
Come home to me and let's work on making this a loving and complete relationship. They say if you can make it through the toughest times, your relationship will be all the better for it. We will have a new found understanding for each other and our mutual love will be that much stronger. We will be able to get through any other problems with ease. We only need to compromise with each other.
The point is, I love you. Our love is something that we need to try and hold on to because real love is rare. It is too easy to give up and throw in the towel. I opt for taking the difficult route and try to work things out with each other because the reward will be wondrous. I apologize that it took me so long to come to this conclusion, as I apologize for so many other things. I only hope that you have come to the same conclusion, and you will come to talk with me very soon.
Come Home My Love,
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