Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I used to talk to him every day multiple times a day. Well this breakup was sudden and unexpected. He did it because he thought he felt like he was using me because he didn't love me. He said he is very attracted to me and when we are together he is really happy, but when we are apart he doesn't feel the same. We were only dating for 5 months, its not like he had to fall in love with me in that amount of time, even though I did with him. Now its like I lost my love and my best friend. And I miss him SO much! I keep wanting to text him, I dunno just to say I miss him or something to see if he feels like I do. Would that be too ridiculous? I sorta emailed him about a week ago, telling him not to reply. I seriously was trying to get over him. When we broke up he gave a lot of excuses and I didn't say anything at the time because I was too devastated, so I emailed him to defend my own self, hoping that would help but it didn't. I just felt guilty for saying some slightly rude things, but nothing to bad.
My friend said she called her ex after feeling bad after a week and they got back together because of it. She said if I feel like I should, to follow the instinct because maybe I am right. She said they wouldn't have gotten back together if she hadn't called him. I don't want to be like a stalker ex, but I really, really want to. So should I leave him alone, or text him? Honest answers please!
